Answers for "not hover jquery"

on mouse not over jquiery

$( "#other" ).click(function() {
  $( "#outer" ).mouseleave();
});

un hover in jquery

$(".card").mouseleave(function () {
        $(".card").find('.span_delete').hide(300);
    })

jquery hover and hover out

$( selector ).mouseenter( handlerIn ).mouseleave( handlerOut );